In principle, I see the argument. But who defines what is and isn't a "rush" to disclose? Who is to say what is "too much, too soon"?
My argument is that men have no say in this. And for those of us who naturally self-disclose, and who are naturally receptive to the self-disclosure of others (as INFJs are), this is a real problem, because we wind up untrusted, when we don't deserve it.
On the odd chance that you haven't truly left as you said you were going to, Archangel, I'm wondering if you think you may have disclosed too much too soon and then withdrew. . .
A learning experience?
"No ray of sunshine is ever lost, but the green which it awakes into existence needs time to sprout, and it is not always granted to the sower to see the harvest. All work that is worth anything is done in faith." - Albert Schweitzer
I think there's always an underlying sense of vulnerability in me, but outwardly, I'm pretty tough
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?
Am I aggressive? Very. I play a rough hockey game, although, able to get away with bullshit others wouldn't get away with. Socially, I call concepts and ideas stupid, that basically tears a person down rather than the concept, and get away with it, unlike anyone else I know. A verbal bully.
Do I go around looking for trouble? No.
Do I fight? Never.
Do I argue? ...I like to call it a heated discussion....but yes, and always.
Am I a sissy in that I don't have an overly manly persona? Yes. I clearly and most certainly do not have a bravado, at least not that I'm aware of. If I started to act like something I'm not, I'd start laughing at myself, and I'm often surprised bravado works on women, because it's like believing a lie or a false front, and I would think women would see through it. I guess the person who says you're a sissy because you're an NF, is looked upon as an idiot by the NF's, because of a quiet power some of us NF's have in controlling and leading you without you knowing it. This sissy question, is really about power and exacting ones will over another, and like I said, in that sense, I am by no means a push over or a sissy, and have no problems telling an over bearing idiot to F off.