LOL you ENFP's crack me up. so proud . i think if we looked at the 4 temperaments (NF, NT, SP, SJ), NF's would come out as being the most artistic/emotional of the lot. we are very much in touch with our feelings and we all long for self understanding. we're also driven by morals. all in all, i can see why people see us as pansies. however, we also have the bravery to stand up against society, not to conform and stick with our guns. i think being sissy is a bit of a misconception.
I'm sort of cautious, I sometimes think bad things will happen if I'm not careful..
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?
I used to be a sissy kid, but my neighbor always would say "are you a man or a mouse", and he helped make me into a man. I'm not a fighter, but thats just because if I get agressive I can't control myself, and I don't want anyone to die/go to the hospital, so I just avoid physical conflicts and I have learned how to handle other conflicts well.
This is funny, my ENTP roommate had a similar discussion about how much I'm not a push over. He's actually described me as one of those strong and silent types, I guess some can see better than others.
The ENTP's I've met have been pretty intuitive bunch of people. That might be the reason that they notice it. The silent and strong describtion's something I've also heard before, said by other types too.
Now that's strange.
Yep I'm nice but I'm not a sissy. In fact if people use snide remarks on me, I can usually cut through them with something snider if they piss me off enough but you really have to go far to get me to be real nasty but I can be. It usually terrifies people when I'm like that cause it's rare so they tiptoe around me for days ha ha.
Somebody has to be fabulous, it might as well be me! LOL