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    What are 3 things that are most likely to make ENFJ happy ?


    What are 3 things that are most likey to make ENFJ angry ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virtual ghost View Post
    What are 3 things that are most likely to make AN ENFJ happy ?


    What are 3 things that are most likey to make AN ENFJ angry ?
    Why are you talking to ENFJs like they're cavemen?

    'ENFJ HAPPY!' 'ENFJ ANGRY!'

    'ME ENFJ! ME SAD!'

    Sorry, I had to point that out. It made me laugh a little, though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Captain_Invincible View Post
    Why are you talking to ENFJs like they're cavemen?

    'ENFJ HAPPY!' 'ENFJ ANGRY!'

    'ME ENFJ! ME SAD!'

    Sorry, I had to point that out. It made me laugh a little, though.

    Because English is not my first language and I got a little bit careless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Virtual ghost View Post
    Because English is not my first language and I got a little bit careless.
    Oh, I understand. That's fair enough, but I thought you should know that. I'm not pointing it out because I think your language skills are inferior or anything like that, I'm just letting you know that it came across in that particular way If I was speaking another language, I would want people to help me and point things like that out to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by geedoenfj View Post
    We can be manipulative yes, guilty [emoji113]������ admitted.. We think of others' problems as being our own, yes [emoji85].. Now let's talk about pushy..
    See you gotta know that when we give advise or a suggestion, we mostly sure that we know all aspects of the problem so when we're being pushy it's because you're about to get into a big trouble if you don't listen, believe me I know exactly when to be pushy because all people I have pushed either came to me giving me a big "thank you have saved my life I could have been ruined by now" or they show a regression for not have been listening to me..
    When an ENFJ tells you something you gotta believe him because we KNOW people very well, therefor we KNOW the future scenarios if you took a certain decisions.. I don't remember when my expectations about any single problem or issue have gone wrong..
    But INTJ tend to be defensive when we show them solutions, you don't listen to us people what can we do? You get what you asked for [emoji39] you can be quite pushy as a sign of caring for others don't you?
    That's an ENFJ line. Not an INTJ line. ENFJ's push because they care (or believe they do). INTJ's push because you're doing it wrong.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    That's an ENFJ line. Not an INTJ line. ENFJ's push because they care (or believe they do). INTJ's push because you're doing it wrong.
    I meant as a parent or a wife, you don't show much emotions but you make certain expectations about what your family members should do, that's why you become pushy when you think they're not doing good enough, and that's your definition of caring..
    My mother is an INTJ and that's how she behaves..
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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    That's an ENFJ line. Not an INTJ line. ENFJ's push because they care (or believe they do). INTJ's push because you're doing it wrong.
    INTJ's do love a better way.
    'One of (Lucas) Cranach's masterpieces, discussed by (Joseph) Koerner, is in it's self-referentiality the perfect expression of left-hemisphere emptiness and a precursor of post-modernism. There is no longer anything to point to beyond, nothing Other, so it points pointlessly to itself.' - Iain McGilChrist

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    "Suppose it didn't," said Pooh, after careful thought.
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    Quote Originally Posted by geedoenfj View Post
    I meant as a parent or a wife, you don't show much emotions but you make certain expectations about what your family members should do, that's why you become pushy when you think they're not doing good enough, and that's your definition of caring..
    My mother is an INTJ and that's how she behaves..
    Nah, I cried like a baby at the world series last night. But I know what you mean.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
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    What is a number one sign that a male ENFJ is interested in you and doesn't treat you like a very good friend? However up till now I too have been giving mixed signals so.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanineleia View Post
    What is a number one sign that a male ENFJ is interested in you and doesn't treat you like a very good friend? However up till now I too have been giving mixed signals so.......
    He might be interested in you but once he feel that it was too noticeable he shift into making you think that he's not interested, or perhaps he wanna be with you but doesn't want a relationship right now.
    We are obsessed with the idea of finding the one who is totally meant for us; which might make us too careful about having a relationship..
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