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    Quote Originally Posted by murkrow View Post
    He's not being pompous he's trying to explain himself and his perspective of the situation as clearly as possible.

    Imagine you're talking to someone who speaks another language and the only scraps of english they seem to know are "Fuck, stupid, damnit!" so they start crying because in your attempts to talk to them that's all they hear, then imagine trying to calm them down without using those words more, congratulations you're an NTJ dealing with an NF.

    What you're displaying is actually proving his point more!

    He's trying to be honest and give all the information available to him no matter how much it displays his empathic shortcomings and you're taking it as an insult!
    Perhaps you are right.

    But in my world, a girl has every right to get offended when a guy is just being a dick.

    Also, in every instance that any NT has ever made me cry, (not that common), he just so happened to be acting like an EPIC DICKHEAD!

    So yeah, perhaps I am a bit biased here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by murkrow View Post
    It sounds to me like you just haven't found the right person.
    Yeah this has been clear to me for a while. I think it's just been a lot easier to start a relationship with F's so far, and they seem to do more pursuing than T's, at least to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajblaise View Post
    Yeah this has been clear to me for a while. I think it's just been a lot easier to start a relationship with F's so far, and they seem to do more pursuing than T's, at least to me.
    Yeah I hear ya.

    It must be a pain to be an INT when it comes to relationships since the social structures in place for the building of a relationship are so dominated by male initiative.

    Would you rather have an ENT or and INT for a lover?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ajblaise View Post
    .And with girls in general, it's about something hurtful someone said to them usually.
    This is true.

    Quote Originally Posted by sriv View Post
    Aha! There's the problem.
    Pssht, silence yourself sriv.

    NFs *value* truth!

    Quote Originally Posted by murkrow View Post
    It sounds to me like you just haven't found the right person..
    Agreed, but maybe he can work a bit on himself too.

    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Poriferan View Post
    Selfishness, yes.
    Haven't you ever heard of ethical egoism?
    No, but thanks to you, now I have, and hell yeah I am an ethical egoist, and fucking proud of it.

    So,

    Ethical egoism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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    Quote Originally Posted by murkrow View Post
    LOL!

    Prepare to be shown the difference between heard and listened to.
    What do you mean by that?
    For the record, I don't believe in ethical egoism at all, I'm just using it as an example of Fi producing selfishness.

    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    Perhaps you are right.

    But in my world, a girl has every right to get offended when a guy is just being a dick.

    Also, in every instance that any NT has ever made me cry, (not that common), he just so happened to be acting like an EPIC DICKHEAD!

    So yeah, perhaps I am a bit biased here.
    The problem for me is the vagueness of your terms. Exactly what is being a dick?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    No, but thanks to you, now I have, and hell yeah I am an ethical egoist, and fucking proud of it.

    So,

    Ethical egoism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
    Thank you. I rest my case.
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    Quote Originally Posted by murkrow View Post
    Would you rather have an ENT or and INT for a lover?
    I'll probably end up dating more ENT's, but will marry a INT. Ideally it's hard to decide, but I like having things in common with girls so INT, and they seem more inaccessible which I like because of the challenge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajblaise View Post
    I'll probably end up dating more ENT's, but will marry a INT. Ideally it's hard to decide, but I like having things in common with girls so INT, and they seem more inaccessible which I like because of the challenge.
    I bet you $5000 imaginary dollars you marry an ENT
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Poriferan View Post
    The problem for me is the vagueness of your terms. Exactly what is being a dick?
    When someone is being a dick, they are usually being selfish, mean, and morally wrong and rather than face these facts and be accountable for their misdeeds or mistakes, they choose to blame or put it on someone else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    Pssht, silence yourself sriv.

    NFs *value* truth!
    They say they do. But recognizing it is as important.
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