I'm curious mostly about female INFPs but males are welcome to comment, or anyone else really.
I think I am asking about a really large subject matter though.
I wanted to know experiences you've had as a INFP falling in love. Or having a crush on someone. Starting a relationship. Going out. Dating. That sort of stuff. The "affection" subject.
How did you act?
Did you aggressively pursue the person, or did you quietly observe them?
How about how you treated them?
Did you treat them better/worse than your normal friends, or did you generally treat them the same as your normal friends.
Were you their friend first?
We're you shy and avoided interaction? Or did you always make time to try to be with that person.
What about walls? I think everyone knows what I mean by walls. Emotional walls. Relationship walls. Distancing yourself from others not on a physical level but a deeper level.
Did you let your walls come down, or did you wait and get to know the person, to be able to trust that they won't hurt you, or something else, before you opened up?
Do you prefer to think and discuss complex things with friends, or do you generally think deep when your alone?
That's a lot of questions I realize, but no one has to answer them all. Just hit one, or two, or even none and just comment on your experiences.
Actually I'm mostly interested in INFPs experiences in that area more so than having my questions answered...
Mainly more than anything else, how you acted.