At any rate, turns out he carefully thought it through and determined that he was not interested in me. Mostly based on the fact that I am too intense for him and he cannot handle it (or understand it for that matter). Lame!
Interestingly, he is one of the few guys I have met that can friend me. Like, he wants to hang out with me all the time and can spend as much time as I want with me without it being romantic at all. And, it's different than with SF guys or NF guys.
I don't really have a point, but I'm just sorting it through. Generally, I am confused by the whole matter. And, I am embarrasingly disappointed that he does not like me (I was so proud of myself for not falling for another ESFP! And, choosing stability instead!).
If anyone has any thoughts, I'd appreciate the insight.