A student said to his master: "You teach me fighting, but you talk about peace. How do you reconcile the two?" The master replied: "It is better to be a warrior in a garden than to be a gardener in a war." - unknown/Chinese
Few types are as adept at pushing my buttons just by being themselves as ENTP men. Some of the women, too, especially the younger ones, but I also know some really fantastic ENTP women, so there's that, too.