I've been told that many times. But I think too intense for certain people. It's weird because that's been both something people seem to love, but also one of my dowlfalls. I'll find guys love the intensity at first, but it usually then becomes too much for them. But it's just how I am, so maybe it's just a matter of finding the right person/type? I think it's also a matter of trying to tone it down somewhat, which is what I'll try and do next time I think.Also, when an INFP woman had directed her attention to me, it was intense. When that aloof cat is in the mood to be lovable and starts purring, you know it.
Like I said, I can definitely see that. My sister and I clash because there's all these feelings. And when one of us seems to upset one of the others values, which seems to happen easily for some reason, it can end in a messy puddle of spilled emotions. I really don't think I've been with another INFP in the romantic sense, so I know it's a slightly different kettle of fish! I'm definitely attracted to INFP's, but wether it would work with one in the long-term is another story.But yeah, when you have two people that need to be true and express themselves above all else, it can cause a clash. My desire to avoid that is likely what keeps me from crossing the relationship line with another INFP.
Thanks for your insights, I appreciate it.