I only know one male INFP that I'm aware of, and I think he's pretty sexy. But somehow he's pretty scary to me as well, I don't know why, because he's really sweet and stuff. I really don't get it. Maybe it's his eyebrows.
Hmmm, interesting to be read beside your avatar...
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INFPs who are in touch with their own sexuality/are very sexual tend to also be sexy to me (you have to work backwards here...)
I think for me it's a mutual Fi pull? Fi recognizes Fi! Hee hee. And the sexiness that I've seen I'd describe as coming from Fi that runs pretty hotly and strongly and doesn't end up icing over a person's persona - it's when a person has become comfortable with the more volatile aspects of Fi that I think the sexiness comes in - the ability to be willingly passionate about something, the depth of feeling, the honest yearning. But being introverts, there's a brooding or intense quality to it, and it's very different from Fe or how Fi is expressed in ENFPs. (A different kind of sexeh, lol)
Not all INFPs I've met would I describe as sexy, not at all and I wouldn't necessarily say "INFPs are sexy". But the ones I've dated? Oh yeah.
Anecdote: One INFP I dated was described by someone as "the most sexual person I've ever met in my life". The funny thing is, this INFP practically told me (more than once) that sex was over rated and she wasn't that into it. That kinda confused me and put me off - false advertising!!! Ha ha ha ha. But you would never know from observing her interacting with others. I think you only found this out once you were dating her. HA.
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