Lately all my friends are, ISTPS, INTJS, or ENFPs as long with ISFPS and INFPS. I think it's because I work at a pizza place now, I corner out the people who don't talk and just do a good job...because I am absolutely the worlds worst pizza girl. I just make jokes and they teach me things...i enjoy it. But most of my friends at the moment are ISTPS...which I didn't see coming.
"I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying."
I feel like I could click well with any NJ, and INFPs/ENFPs are also easy enough. Introverts are easier for me to befriend than extroverts, because our perspective is a little more similar and an extrovert's energy can become a little intimidating/overwhelming after a while. xNTPs are the only iNuititves I have trouble warming to. INTPs in particular can infuriate me.
I seem to struggle with Sensors, especially SPs, and I'll be lazy and blame cognitive differences for that. They just can't understand me.
As far as I know right now, I think inf and sp, especially isfp (bts) and stp (ctc/in-charge), but with the latter it's a mixed bag depending on where I'm at because of my weird relationship with se. At the most imbalanced I've gone through spartan periods followed by counterreaction periods to get out of feeling trapped in my head followed by ultra downtime to recover from [what is for me] overstimulation, recycling if I don't avoid going spartan again. I like their humor and they keep me more healthy than without, though.
Most of the sps I've known have been head types (one heart type). I've only ever been semi-close with an 8w7 once, an estp, and I loved how grounded and generous and protective she was, but she was also constantly guarded and saw me as 'childlike'; that was both endearing and exasperating to her in turns - sometimes I got exhausted too at being pushed to be more [like an 8] because it was so unnatural for me. I think because vulnerability made her uncomfortable, she couldn't understand how I was comfortable that way and wanted to make me 'be strong'. But I liked her to the extent that I got to know her. No idea how it would've progressed had we known each other longer. She was so guarded that I didn't [get to].
I seem to have a butt load of ISTJ friends so defo them, also get along with INTJs, xNFPs and haven't met many NFJs but I surprisingly clicked straight away with an ENFJ I met this year. I think I get along quite decently with ISFJs too.
The others I either have barely come across or I generally don't get along with even if there are the odd few from each type I do get along with (e.g. I have one good ESTJ friend but can't stand most of the others I know)
I tend to get along better with the Fi types, or types that have their Fe in tertiary and inferior functions.
My best friends are ISFP and INFP, and I also get along really well with ENFPs.
As a very emotional individual, I could not stand people who are more suspicious and emotionally unstable than I am.
While healthy ESxJs are amazing, unhealthy ESxJ are so manipulative and scary.