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[NF] Are INFPs hopeless in love?

CometGain

New member
Joined
Jul 20, 2015
Messages
2
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
4w5
I feel hopeless not because I am an INFP, but maybe because I am unattractive. I feel no matter how we pretend that looks do not matter, it does, to an extent, it does. I guess the INFP part of me really finds it difficult to relate and connect with someone. I'm kind of the Forever Alone type. Never had people attracted to me, and I've never even been on a date. I feel as if I am still waiting for high school, and yet I am already in my 30s. I feel so inept. I think I am also what one would call demisexual, since I have this tendency to fall for a best friend, or the closest guy friend I have. Yet these people who know me inside out, still don't quite 'see' me. So yes, I am hopeless..
 

Ovid

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Joined
Jul 13, 2015
Messages
55
MBTI Type
ENFJ
Enneagram
9w1
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
I feel hopeless not because I am an INFP, but maybe because I am unattractive. I feel no matter how we pretend that looks do not matter, it does, to an extent, it does. I guess the INFP part of me really finds it difficult to relate and connect with someone. I'm kind of the Forever Alone type. Never had people attracted to me, and I've never even been on a date. I feel as if I am still waiting for high school, and yet I am already in my 30s. I feel so inept. I think I am also what one would call demisexual, since I have this tendency to fall for a best friend, or the closest guy friend I have. Yet these people who know me inside out, still don't quite 'see' me. So yes, I am hopeless..

It sounds more like you're just really lonely.. :cry:

I know it's hard for an introvert, but maybe if you got out there more? What do you do to socialize, if anything?:shrug:
 
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