You went off on an off topic tangent justifying your beliefs when all I did was stimulate discussion, as well as point out flaws in the OPs ideaology, which is something he wanted. I could write a huge essay as to why abstinance is not a good decision, but your entire arguement is based around SEX IS BAD BECAUSE SEX IS BAD!
One topic I'd like to hit, however: As for the recent increase in divorce rates, miserable, terrible marriages have been the norm for..ever. The more you associate with people (much) older than yourself, the more you'll realize this!! It's simply that people nowadays do not find living an unfulfilling marriage ~for the rest of their life~ attractive!
EDIT: This post is way too serious!!
I love all my fellow idealists even when I want to strangle them because of their ideals!! Hey I tell my girlfriend this all the time