Ni me! your insight feels so deep and rigid... Don't stop! Take your processing time, just follow the patterns... Bring me to your world view, bring me all the way! Almost there... Deeper! Deeper! Oh my undifferentiated abstract yet vivid concept of god! I'm coming to a realization... Yes! Fill me with your insights!
My first impressions are that most IFJs would not really give off a sexy persona. The stuff they do may be very appealing and attractive, but it would not really be of the IFJ intention. The only exception is with those that you are trying to get close to.
Some of them are, some not. But if you look at them and other types from purely an stereotypical point of view, they are well above average of all types, because of this mysterious aura that they have and im not sure if its just a coincidence that i got this view of them, but they seem to be submissive kinks really often. I think its about the nature willing to please that makes the submissiveness and inferior Se easily leads to kinkiness.. Not that a submissive kink is some ultimate turn on for me, but..
I don't care about kinkiness anymore. So much of it diverges way too far from the pure hedonism of sex. I think the INTPs and INTJs are the most inclined towards kinkiness because they can be estranged from both emotion and concrete senses. Tertiary and inferior Si seem the most inclined towards symbolic sex (which is what kinkiness seems to be)
From this INFJs perspective, sex is about connection to another human being and about balancing my abstract self with the simple, visceral and concrete. For me it is all about balancing my normal Ni-Ti looping self with a refreshing Fe-Se loop that is simple, hedonistic, in the moment, and completely shared with another human being.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY