In my life experience : some women seem to be particulary attracted to me at face value or when they first meet me. Even mesmerized. Lots of people have told me there's something very enigmatic about me, especially my eyes and the way I look or stare (definitely Ni-related). In all my previous relationships that's what women liked about me.
But a lot of times women lose interest once they get to know the droopier, geeky side of me (or the fact that I can act stupid because of bad extraverted sensing, or my second nature to doubt everything). Sometimes the magic gets lost because of this.
““Genius is the power of leaving one’s own interests, wishes, and aims entirely out of sight… so as to remain pure knowing subject, clear vision of the world. ~ Schopenhauer”
Infj females i have noticed are beautiful. A majority of them seem to be slender and tall (taller than 5' 6' and from what i have noticed the tallest females taken as an average) and usually have feminine/beautiful features.
Therefore word i would use is NOT sexy, it's beautiful. Sexiness requires intensity (and curves) that infjs lack. But luckily for them the fashion magazines these days glorify slender, tall, beautiful women (infjs traits i've mentioned above) upto a level that has surpassed curves in desired levels in women esp for magazines.
Haven't met nor noticed many. The ones i have seem to be average looking. Therewas one of them who was quite tall and had soft yet manly feautures. However i am not sure whether he is a infj or isfj.