That, plus everything else I know about Ene and NFJs and what I can glean from the situation doesn't really say "egotistical blindness" to me. It says miscommunication, confusion, frustration, and so on.
I am interested in your offshoot thread.
@Ene, glad that was mostly on. My NFJs would be happy to know I've learned SOMETHING over all these years, lol.
I should clarify:
I did not mean to suggest that there is no idealism-seeking to NFJ. Certainly as an NF there is plenty. I think there is just less hesitation with Fe to put a feeling out in the world, and more concern for external coherence and clarity, whereas with Fi-Ne we're all sloppy about it and go over and over again recorrecting ourselves and inserting lots of disclaimers because we want to get the balance just right, and it's very hard.Originally Posted by Ene