I like ENFJs. I started a "how to spot an ENFJ thread" which worked out well. This one has a different focus.
My interest is women, but I'm sure people who love to hear about ENFJ men:
What hobbies to do you have? I've heard ENFJ women like shoes.
What kind of art?
Wine or beer? I'm guessing wine. What kind of wine?
What food do you like?
What is your occupation?
ENFJs and INTPs seem to get on well and often end up together. What do you see that you like in INTPs?