Wouldn't even know how to go about picking a male ENFJ, but I think female ENFJs tend to have "match-maker" written all over them. ESFJs do too, I guess. So that chick in Pride and Prejudice (I forget her name) or any of her "remake" contemporary analogues (eg Alicia Silverstone in Clueless) are pretty good candidates. For starters.
They tend to be caring, charismatic people-pleasers. Seem to chide themselves (from what I've seen) for being neither impulsive nor deliberative enough. Often the unacknowledged nexus of friendship webs. Hmm, badly mixed metaphor there. Speaking of which