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    When I keep thinking back, it was my tendency to controll and pocess that made my friend most angry. To me it was natural but it really, now, seems to have been a typeconflict. I didnt want to trap him, just wanted more one-on-one interaction and activity. Wich I may not have expressed properly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    Hmm, if I deem you as a nasty, hateful, mean-spirited person, a.) this would be the only reason why I would overtly not be nice to you, b.) I would never start a campaign against you, but I also would not hold back my negative opinion of you.

    I am not really a shit talker, it's just not my thing, and I am shocked that this ENFP did not confront you about his disdain for you?!?!?

    That is so un-ENFP-like.

    Also, social hierarchy, eww, even in elementary school I felt that they were utterly stewpid and potentially detrimental to certain kids. The mere thought of caring about, and or using the social hierarchical system to my advantage is just plain, worthy.
    i hate social hierarchy so much i cant even formulate it into words
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    Quote Originally Posted by lorkan View Post
    When I keep thinking back, it was my tendency to controll and pocess that made my friend most angry. To me it was natural but it really, now, seems to have been a typeconflict. I didnt want to trap him, just wanted more one-on-one interaction and activity. Wich I may not have expressed properly.
    Hmm, we do value our autonomy, tremendously, and the very thought of someone trying to control or possess us probably will be met with either a passive or hostile resentment.

    I do not know if this is just me, or if this is a common trait amongst all ENFPs, but I've always loved and preferred one-on-one communication, and hence, have had more intimate relationships with fewer people, as a opposed to having more casual relationships with many people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    Hmm, we do value our autonomy, tremendously, and the very thought of someone trying to control or possess us probably will be met with either a passive or hostile resentment.
    Yeah I notice autonomy seem important to you. Though back then I didnt know he was ENFP or about MBTI, I just thought he was a bit unfocused. Sometime we decided on the phone to do fun stuff together and when we would meet he would take 3 other friends with him, not asking what I would think about it on the phone because he would think I wouldn't agree and didnt want a "permission (,although I see this as a sign of friendly trust and he would view it as a "trap"...). This is strong and obvious typeconflicts and would probably never be solved in a core level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lorkan View Post
    Yeah I notice autonomy seem important to you. Though back then I didnt know he was ENFP or about MBTI, I just thought he was a bit unfocused. Sometime we decided on the phone to do fun stuff together and when we would meet he would take 3 other friends with him, not asking what I would think about it on the phone because he would think I wouldn't agree and didnt want a "permission (,although I see this as a sign of friendly trust and he would view it as a "trap"...). This is strong and obvious typeconflicts and would probably never be solved in a core level.
    Hmmm, are you *sure* he is an ENFP???

    (For that is something I would *never* do).

    Also, male ENFPs are different than female ENFPs, methinks.
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    I'm very positive he was/is ENFP. He had quiet much of ESxP tendencies since it was mostly SP's in our circle, and he would also have somewhat low Fi combined with a little to high Ne. I don't think he was as healthy during the end of our friendship as he was when we started.

    Although I would also think the woman differ.

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    Default ENFPs and INFJs inside out

    I'm an INFJ female and I definitely notice a big spark whenever I'm around an ENFP, male or female. ENFPs are often quirky and have big personalities and are lots of fun. Someone said ENFPs are INFJs but inside out, and I think that's definitely true. One of my ENFP girlfriends and I seem to be totally different on the outside yet I recognize a lot of myself in her. It's just that I keep all my crazy enthusiasm inside and she lets it all out.

    I find ENFP males very attractive. When I was single I was certainly tempted by them but held back in the name of self preservation. In my observations, a lot of male ENFPs are players -- the original Romeos. Very entertaining and fun to talk to, but I pity the girl who tries to domesticate one.

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    If someone comes off as a mean person generally I'll smother them with affection to the point they feel silly. I just can't help it, I'm a troll.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nillerz View Post
    If someone comes off as a mean person generally I'll smother them with affection to the point they feel silly. I just can't help it, I'm a troll.
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