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    Question What Attracts an INFJ man?

    What qualities are infj men attracted to in a woman and why are infj men so rare? I've read that they are only 1% of the population.

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    Hello.
    Strength with vulnerability
    Charm and sarcasm
    Altruism
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    Honesty and Prudence
    Punctuality
    Ambition
    Artistic ability
    Affectionate and sexual
    Loyalty
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    Hello. I'm afraid that I can't offer answers to either of your questions, but if you are interested in a fictional example, I believe (and have been told) that Mr. Rochester from Jane Eyre is an INFJ.

    He seemed to think quite a bit of little Jane. She was an ISFJ perhaps? As far as specific qualities go, she was moral, traditional, self sufficient, assertive when appropriate, unpretentious, affectionate, and kind.

    They shared Fe, which I think is what makes their flirting sparkle so much. . .
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    Averx, U pretty much nailed it...Though I would also add; being adventuresome (partialy because i want to be complete and second, those chicks just turn me on.) Also being very administrative is also I quality I would seek in a young lady..
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    Quote Originally Posted by IrishStallion819 View Post
    Averx, U pretty much nailed it...Though I would also add; being adventuresome (partialy because i want to be complete and second, those chicks just turn me on.) Also being very administrative is also I quality I would seek in a young lady..
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    Just curious, what do y'all mean by administrative?
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    Quote Originally Posted by helen View Post
    Just curious, what do y'all mean by administrative?
    it's a stationary fetish

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jive A Turkey View Post
    it's a stationary fetish
    LolzThat too (ex Lawyer, ceo, secretary....o gosh).

    but basically when I think of someone being administrative I think of; being able to develop strategies or plans to reach identified goals, assist someone in becoming more effective and efficent, create order out of organizational chaos, manage or coordinate a veriety of responsibilities to accomplish a task, and having the ability to organize people, tasks, and events in a timely manner....Basically someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff and who is very good with managing details.....Which I will admit i fail in that department
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    Quote Originally Posted by IrishStallion819 View Post
    LolzThat too (ex Lawyer, ceo, secretary....o gosh).

    but basically when I think of someone being administrative I think of; being able to develop strategies or plans to reach identified goals, assist someone in becoming more effective and efficent, create order out of organizational chaos, manage or coordinate a veriety of responsibilities to accomplish a task, and having the ability to organize people, tasks, and events in a timely manner....Basically someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff and who is very good with managing details.....Which I will admit i fail in that department
    Ah
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    Quote Originally Posted by AvereX View Post
    Ah
    So we work in tandem with what we admire
    for it is us, but from a different perspective
    Interesting way of putting it...
    "People often Find out the truth, when its too late!!!"

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