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[INFJ] What Attracts an INFJ man?

grendiecat

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What qualities are infj men attracted to in a woman and why are infj men so rare? I've read that they are only 1% of the population.
 

Thursday

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Hello.
Strength with vulnerability
Charm and sarcasm
Altruism
Independence
Talent
Honesty and Prudence
Punctuality
Ambition
Artistic ability
Affectionate and sexual
Loyalty
Mature
Selfless
 

helen

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Hello. I'm afraid that I can't offer answers to either of your questions, but if you are interested in a fictional example, I believe (and have been told) that Mr. Rochester from Jane Eyre is an INFJ.

He seemed to think quite a bit of little Jane. :) She was an ISFJ perhaps? As far as specific qualities go, she was moral, traditional, self sufficient, assertive when appropriate, unpretentious, affectionate, and kind.

They shared Fe, which I think is what makes their flirting sparkle so much. . .
 

IrishStallion819

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Averx, U pretty much nailed it...Though I would also add; being adventuresome (partialy because i want to be complete and second, those chicks just turn me on.) Also being very administrative is also I quality I would seek in a young lady..
 

Thursday

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Averx, U pretty much nailed it...Though I would also add; being adventuresome (partialy because i want to be complete and second, those chicks just turn me on.) Also being very administrative is also I quality I would seek in a young lady..

touche
i desire that and yet forgot
tisk tisk
thank you
 

helen

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Just curious, what do y'all mean by administrative?
 

IrishStallion819

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it's a stationary fetish

LolzThat too (ex Lawyer, ceo, secretary....o gosh).

but basically when I think of someone being administrative I think of; being able to develop strategies or plans to reach identified goals, assist someone in becoming more effective and efficent, create order out of organizational chaos, manage or coordinate a veriety of responsibilities to accomplish a task, and having the ability to organize people, tasks, and events in a timely manner....Basically someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff and who is very good with managing details.....Which I will admit i fail in that department
 

Thursday

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LolzThat too (ex Lawyer, ceo, secretary....o gosh).

but basically when I think of someone being administrative I think of; being able to develop strategies or plans to reach identified goals, assist someone in becoming more effective and efficent, create order out of organizational chaos, manage or coordinate a veriety of responsibilities to accomplish a task, and having the ability to organize people, tasks, and events in a timely manner....Basically someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff and who is very good with managing details.....Which I will admit i fail in that department

Ah
So we work in tandem with what we admire
for it is us, but from a different perspective
 

Kasper

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Crud! It sounded pretty sweet till "Punctuality" was mentioned *sob*

Why oh why :BangHead: [you know time really is so subjective]
 

Wyst

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Yea, Averex got most of mine too. I'd only add:

imaginative
open-minded
and is ok socializing in small groups half the time
 

Thursday

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Yea, Averex got most of mine too. I'd only add:

imaginative
open-minded
and is ok socializing in small groups half the time

it happens again
thank you for your input
 

tenINsFJ

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Hello.
Strength with vulnerability
Charm and sarcasm
Altruism
Independence
Talent
Honesty and Prudence
Punctuality
Ambition
Artistic ability
Affectionate and sexual
Loyalty
Mature
Selfless

He hit it all. The bold stresses high importance to me.
 

gokartride

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A nice smile and pleasant temperament are all I need, although the ability to think, or at least value thought are probably a big plus, too. I have had several friends just like this, that's my frame of reference for seeing how all the pieces just clicked. Now two of these ladies were happily married, and one lives abroad, but I learned a lot from being around them. Sadly, I have met no single ladies that I clicked with like this. I do keep looking though.
 

heart

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Hello. I'm afraid that I can't offer answers to either of your questions, but if you are interested in a fictional example, I believe (and have been told) that Mr. Rochester from Jane Eyre is an INFJ.

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I have seen him also typed as ENTJ.

My quintessential INFJ from literature is David Powlett-Jones from To Serve Them All My Days by R. F. Delderfield, gosh what a beautiful expression of male INFJ. :wubbie:

Book and movie both excellent.
 

heart

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Crud! It sounded pretty sweet till "Punctuality" was mentioned *sob*

Why oh why :BangHead: [you know time really is so subjective]

Yeah, well I was able to reel in an INFJ man and I cannot be on time to save my life.
 

runvardh

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*sigh* girls always do prefer what's rare and hard to obtain...
 
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