Ne allows us after all to see all angles - all perspectives. And like anyone else, we use our parenting function - Fi - to love and connect with others. And Fi cares, fiercely so.
Yes, we can be chaotic, flaky, self-absorbed and all those things when we're still learning to get a handle on our abilities. When we're having a bad day. When the pain gets to us and we shut out the world out of self-preservation. When we've been too disillusioned to deal with it all. We're human, after all, in need of recharging and screw ups.
But make no mistake. We care about others. With all of our heart. It's why we wear it on our sleeve. Our execution may not be perfect and may need serious work still...but don't ever doubt our intentions.