Is this a thing that INFJs do? I find myself doing this regularly.
After there is an apology, I try to move on from whomever I hold the grudge with, but I remember what they did. It's kind of like a criminal docket. Your rap sheet will always have your offense, it's just a matter of how apologetic you are that will decide how much I care about your offense next time you want me to bail you out.
Is this an INFJ thing, a young INFJ thing, or just a me thing?