Really though, he'll be like, "I'm honored you took the time to check those bands out!". He lays it on thick. That's usually how ENFJs do it. They also tell you they "see you" doing X or being a certain way, as some way to inspire you to "grow". Whenever they do this, I tell them to back me financially and I'll do it. But I really don't mind feeding the ENFJ ego because they are so charming .
The real problem with the ENFJ (or MY problem with them) is when I DO express I like them, then they lose interest. As long as I'm not too interested, there they are....making me music playlists & gushing over me with compliments. But when I show I care, then they're off to charm some other girl who's harder to get.