So, enfj's are basically a mystery to me. When I hang around them, especially when they're close to me, there are frequent hurt feelings.
I have no idea why or what is going on. All I know is I feel like I"m hurting my ENFJ friend by just being myself. It almost feels like, if he can't be of assistance to me 24/7, he just radiates pain or anger or something. I think he also gets pissed when I'm closed up or guarded nearby.
Idunno, someone tell me things cuz I'm clueless, thanks.