Why are you INFJ?
Or for others who thought they were INFJ at one time, why did you think you were INFJ?
How do you relate to Ni or Fe? What do they mean to you...or work for you?
I only know one other INFJ in real life and we are quite a bit alike. However, the INFJs here are so different from each other. It appears. People are complicated and many things go into a person's make up--upbringing, culture, tragedy, life experiences, gender, illness.
So...what makes you INFJ.
Or what made you decide that you are not INFJ.