I'm terrible at starting and maintaining threads, but I just feel like the INFJ's on this forum could use some smilies! All types are welcome to comment, of course.
Here are the two main guidelines:
1. Say something nice about INFJ's either in general, or even boil it down to something great about a specific INFJ you know. If you are an INFJ, you also have the option of saying why you personally like being an INFJ. Don't be modest, now!
2. Let's not say anything about all that junk before. We have plenty of threads that cover unhealthy "INFJ's". Let's make this a positive thread.
I will begin:
I often find myself awestruck by the insights presented by some of our INFJ posters here. If I'm skimming down a long thread, and see avatars/usernames of certain INFJ's, I will immediately stop and read what they have to say very closely (there's a whole bunch of you guys, but off the top of my head Z Buck McFate, cafe, Fidelia, Fia, Titltyred, SilkRoad, Vasilisa, the state i am in come to mind.).
On an IRL level, I went to school with this girl who was INFJ, and I admit she seemed slightly haughty at first, but when I got to know her, I realized she was just a very earnest, caring person, who had to keep her distance emotionally because she gets so easily absorbed in everyone's troubles. She was a fascinating person to talk to and an amazing poet to boot! I also would never have graduated high school without her assistance in grade 12.
God, I hope this thread isn't seen as condescending...I just think it's a nice idea.