Here's a two-fold question for all INFJs and INFJ-minded people.
: Does it bother you much if people (familiar or strange) make assumptions about you or your way of life?
: Do you ever find yourself acting against these assumptions, just to prove them wrong?
Just asking since I feel that my INFJ has almost a phobia of people assuming things of her. She says she feels they are trying to pressure her into some generic mold and it's an insult to her independency. Any of this sounds familiar? How do you deal with it? How do others deal with you?