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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasofy View Post
    Interactions on a Ne level get boring quickly. Perhaps I should try to bed them before that point next time.




    There is more to Ne than banter and silly games, you silly silly boy

    Fine, lemme spell it out then. Instead of tearing them a new one for presenting you with a half-assed hypothesis when they discuss something with you, recognize it for the draft that it is, appreciate the fact that they wnat your input on it, and use that Ne of yours together with your Ti to fill the gaps and 'construct' something together, editing the first draft, plugging the holes and actually work together as a team. We dont present full hypotheses, we present ideas. Therefore they will *NEVER* be up to the standard you would be using before presenting your own personal hypotheses. This is also what you *like* about us...that we are spontaneous and bubbly and toss out the weirdest shit first

    So don't punish us for it. Restrain that inner critic of yours and appreciate the invite to work on the project at brainstorming level, bouncing ideas off of each other. And yes..value that Fi input, if you can. We try to do the same with your foreign feeling Ti. I know Fi looks really like its build on air castles, but it most certainly has value and its own logic. So suspend your logical naysaying and watch it work its magic
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post


    There is more to Ne than banter and silly games, you silly silly boy

    Fine, lemme spell it out then. Instead of tearing them a new one for presenting you with a half-assed hypothesis when they discuss something with you, recognize it for the draft that it is, appreciate the fact that they wnat your input on it, and use that Ne of yours together with your Ti to fill the gaps and 'construct' something together, editing the first draft, plugging the holes and actually work together as a team. We dont present full hypotheses, we present ideas. Therefore they will *NEVER* be up to the standard you would be using before presenting your own personal hypotheses. This is also what you *like* about us...that we are spontaneous and bubbly and toss out the weirdest shit first

    So don't punish us for it. Restrain that inner critic of yours and appreciate the invite to work on the project at brainstorming level, bouncing ideas off of each other. And yes..value that Fi input, if you can. We try to do the same with your foreign feeling Ti. I know Fi looks really like its build on air castles, but it most certainly has value and its own logic. So suspend your logical naysaying and watch it work its magic
    I love your ability to make anything sound cute.

    I'll keep that in mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Typhus View Post
    Perhaps they do feel threatened. The last one did I think. But not all ENFPs are alike. 7 wing ENFPs seem almost ESFP. They're not very attracted to intelligence. I've met many ENFPs but few were capable of analytical thought like INTPs.
    *heavy sigh* Please tell me some ENFP has already come through this thread and cleared some 'stuff' up...

    EDIT: Okay.............................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .......so I see not. Now I just need to see if I care to come back and do it. wtf.
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    Most INTPs I know treat ExFPs like airheads. Even if they like them, it's more like "you're a cute & entertaining airhead". Perhaps not true for the OP, but just my observation IRL. ENFPs generally don't like that treatment, and ESFPs only tolerate it if they think it gives them an edge (my ESFP sis says she likes to be "underestimated" as a kind of advantage over people).

    I knew an ENFP who was obsessed with this mutual INTP friend of ours. He pretended not to like her when he kinda did, and most of his contemptuous attitude was towards her being kind of silly. Not in her humor, but just her general way. I think it amused him, but he was also annoyed at times by it. She pursued him relentlessly anyway, as infatuated ENFPs tend to do. Not sure how anyone could miss those signals...

    Oh yeeeaaah, I like design & bright colors, and I'm totally down for a conversation on Kant. IDk why people think an interest in fashion or aesthetics means shallow or not intellectually inclined....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasofy View Post
    I've been asking myself the same question. They seem somewhat allergic to Ti, I think. It can sound judgemental for those not used to it.
    I think the last ENFP I dated briefly thought I was judgemental/controlling because I told her playfully that she had to do something to make up for flaking out on something she said she'd do. I said it playfully, but over text, so I think she thought I was being controlling. I scared another one away.

    I'm not familiar with cognitive functions like Ti. Google tells me that Ti is not in the top four dominant traits of ENFP, so does it scare ENFPs?

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    Ha. I could just imagine her thoughts. "Insults me by implying I have to live up to his standards then insults me again by saying I have to pay for failing to do so. Like hell, Buddy. *delete*"

    You don't get to play like that until you're sure you've got her, and even then, it's shaky ground if she has any doubts. Things like that can look like big danger signs for the future.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Typhus View Post
    Metaphorically speaking.

    I'm INTP and I've felt the magnetic pull that only ENFPs seem to have over me. But I scare away most of them. I'm not mean or creepy so why do you run away? I'm just weird. Am I giving off some creepy vibes? I checked the mirror and I don't have an evil pulsating green boil that on my forehead.

    ENFPs, how do your perceive INTPs? I'm outgoing and clownish for an INTP.
    Funny, I can't get enfp's away from me fast enough. Probably because I ignore them. Since they're so dead set on being the center of attention, they do everything in their power to change that. They all seem to have the same exact pickup lines.

    Me: Fuck you
    ENFP: Please do!

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    I'm pleased to see a thread stereotyping a group of FPs rather than FJs as having sexual preferences or standards.

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    Yeah, if a buttload of other types of girls also aren't letting you in, it may not be a type thing. As in, it's not a type thing.
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    No, I have SJ women after me. I don't get into relationships with them because I'm attracted almost exclusively to ENFP females.

    I have male and female ENFx friends, but I wantz to an ENFP romantically.

    And then take off their pants.

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