What she has told me is that she does, indeed, have commitment issues. She suspects she has an attachment disorder. She has also said that it takes her years to decide to commit to a relationship. As for the Skype conversations, sometimes she is very engaged, others not. She will tell me when she on the phone or distracted otherwise. When she is here, we will sometimes get online and it will be a shared activity. Most of our time when she is here is spent talking, watching movies, or just hanging out. Concerning the sex, being male, of course I would like more, but there are times when she says she just isn't "feeling very sexy". I would say we have sex twice, at the very least, when she comes up. As far as "snuggling" and "cuddling", she is the one that initiates it most of the time.