ENFP for me
although an ENTP would probably the best for me
I adore Fi, and have plenty of it myself
plus too much Fe would annoy me, since my Fe annoys me
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06-26-2008, 11:33 PM #31I N V I C T U S
06-26-2008, 11:33 PM #32
A moderate extravert would help balance me but not be too draining because of my more mild introversion (an introvert tends to force me to take up the extravert role, which is more draining, IMO).
So, ENFx so far. I have a male ENFP friend whom I adore, and my father is also an ENFP which worked well matched with my SJ mom. ENFPs and I tend to light each others fires pretty easily. But I have a thing for ENFJs (romantic or platonic). Not all ENFJs, but when it clicks, it is my favourite. Ni can dive deep together without much effort at all when it's the same flavour.*You don't have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.
*Faith is the art of holding on to things your reason once accepted, despite your changing moods.
06-26-2008, 11:51 PM #33
06-27-2008, 01:04 PM #34"Why had he never appreciated what a miracle he was, brain and nerve and bounding heart?"
06-27-2008, 10:37 PM #35
I guess we can only make one choice? I tried to vote for both ENFJ and INFJ.Something Witty
06-27-2008, 10:59 PM #36
Eh. Probably INFP, though they can be a little too much like me. Still, they're the NFs I "connect" best with. I don't think I'd get on with ENFPs or ENFJs, but I suppose it's possible. I think that I might just work better with NTPs.INFJ
"I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. You can never be what you ought to be until I am what I ought to be. This is the interrelated structure of reality." -Martin Luther King, Jr.
06-28-2008, 05:51 AM #37
06-28-2008, 05:52 AM #38
No NFs for me...NT is much more engaging. I'm pretty sure my husband is NT.
06-28-2008, 06:17 AM #39
I don't know any ENFPs offhand, so I'll leave them out. My dad is ENFJ, my brother INFP and one ex INFJ. Getting along with my ENFJ dad is effortless for pretty much the reasons Jennifer described.
INFJ ex could be great. But he was sometimes too inscrutable, and had trust issues he admitted. It was as if he had several layers and I should be happy he let me into a deeper layer than others, because *no one* goes further. Not so good for someone driven to understand the complexities of the people they care about. Meanwhile, he was very much into getting at my own core, which (surprise) I am similarly disinclined to allow. Couple inscrutability with high sensitivity and it's too exhausting. But maybe worth it?
With INFP brother, we "get" each other a lot, too, but this isn't always good, because we also understand well enough to see the underlying motivations we don't like (F v. T). When it's good, it's awesome, but when we disagree, the psychological skirmishes and one-up-manship can be all too effective. We know how to rile each other up, and do it for kicks.Ti (43); Ne (41.8); Te (33.7); Fi (30.5); Ni (27.5); Se (24.7); Si (21.5); Fe (17.3)
The More You Know the Less You Need. - Aboriginal Saying
06-28-2008, 02:13 PM #40
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