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View Poll Results: Which NF type would you choose for your SO?

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  • ENFP

    14 21.88%
  • ENFJ

    14 21.88%
  • INFJ

    25 39.06%
  • INFP

    11 17.19%
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    OK so maybe it's all about the maturation process, but without a doubt the ENFPs I know (even, and especially, the hardcore E's) are the most introverted extraverts I've ever met. Like Carolyn described: they all need downtime with a good friend and/or good relaxation activity to purge the emotional detritus that they pick up bouncing around (meta)physically.
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    I already picked an INFJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nozflubber View Post
    I voted ENFP on the assumption she wouldn't be a slut and cheat, which I've read can be a problem for 'em. I can handle the social butterfly stuff, but infidelity = out
    Very much agreed. Fidelity (trust) is the most important thing in a relationship to me, so that'd be a factor. My good enfp friend cheated a few times on her bf... Bad ju ju. =/

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    Unfortunately, I'm not able to apply the acronym "SO" to the context (something about marriage). Could someone please explain what an "SO" is?


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    *significant other

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    I think an INFx type would be my ideal. I know many INFPs and I know a strongly expressed 'P' would drive me nuts. So I selected INFJ, although granted I don't know many right now.

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    Really I think I'd be best suited to an NT of some kind, but speaking hypothetically I think that of the NFs INFP would be my choice. I don't have anything against extroverts, but too much time spent in their company can be sort of draining so I don't think either ENFP or J would be an ideal choice for a relationship. An INFJ might be a little too much like me, and what's the point of that? In friendships, I find the endless INFP/INFJ similarities and differences to be quite intriguing to contemplate and discuss. I suppose the same dynamic might be there in a romantic relationship.

    So yeah, basically, INFP it is. (If I had to choose an NF.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by nozflubber View Post
    I voted ENFP on the assumption she wouldn't be a slut and cheat, which I've read can be a problem for 'em. I can handle the social butterfly stuff, but infidelity = out


    That's really sweet of you to say, Noz.

    Hahahaha....

    I have to concur, I think I might be more compatible with a T who is in touch with their feelings (no, not an oxymoron :P) but if I had to choose amongst NF, I'd pick INFJ. I think that would be enough difference to make it a good fit.
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    I don't seriously think about it in MBTI terms, but the fieryness of ENFJ is appealing, theoretically.

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    I DID pick an ENFJ for a girlfriend, and it was great while it lasted. But I think I want to find an ESFJ next time.
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