I'm and INTJ and it seems that I feel in love with INFP. I mean, at the first I didn't knew what's happening to me. But when I looked into her eyes deeply for few times I was like looking at the deepest unexplored parts of universe. Do I need to say more ?
It all started by chatting at workplace, joking around etc. I really enjoyed her company although being an INTJ I needed a lot of time to get some level of trust in her. We started to exchange e-mail/txt messages after the work too. Unfortunately, I'm not able to "get to her" or in other words, I simply can't understand if there is something from her side that would indicate that maybe she has feelings for me or no.
Sometimes she answers me everything I ask, sometimes she ignores it and I need to start conversation again. Sometimes I get signals that would be very clear like "I'm not interested in you", but after that I get some kind of signals stating opposite. For instance, when I'm passing near her house I like to text her to come out and have a short chat or something but I always get "I'm busy" type of message. If it stays at that, I would know that she is not interested. But after that I usually get the message "No worries, there will be more chances to meet" type of message. It is really really hard for me to "work" like this. I would just like to tell here everything I feel and why I feel it, what I see in here. But I get a feeling that it could scare her away.
Oh, and I sent her and online test at work so that is how I know that she is an INFP, and after reading description about INFP's some thing are clear to me but again... is there something by what I could get at least a clue that she is interested ?
If it was someone else in question, I would probably already give up ... but each time I remember her eyes I get energy for pursuing my feeling further.
Can anyone from the INFP side help out here ?