Seriously though, painting this picture for me helps me understand a lot more. Though, the girl who I'm referring to definitely doesn't fit this description all the way, I can see some similarities.
I think I was most disturbed because that life isn't where I would feel comfortable. I want externally challenged, i want to dream and create more goals, I don't want to stay at home. Perhaps I am projecting my fears onto this girl. I need to understand that my NF style isn't fit for everyone else. I often find myself wanting to pull people out of their shells and challenge them to try more at life. Maybe I should stop and let them be.