A question for INFJ males; I have noticed that American culture at least is not that attracted to 'soft' males (e.g. sensitivity = emasculation outside of a romantic relationship). As such, many F males seem to come off as Ts. I have watched some INFJ male videos on youtube whom are sans the 'lively facial expressions' or elocution of a typified Fe person (unless I'm in good company). Conversely, INTJ females seem to be a be softer than the males.
Perhaps society makes our tertiary functions more pronounced and Fe becomes more of a subconscious mode by which we made judgement but is heavily influenced by culture.
The vacant look in his eyes is very Ni-dominant IMO
it's odd, very introverted Ni-doms never really look "there", not in the pejorative sense but just a look of physical deatchment/disengagement. Anyone else notice?