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    Quote Originally Posted by Lark View Post
    I dont think it does if you've a conscience.
    Then OP can grow past that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duck_of_Death View Post
    Then OP can grow past that.
    Um, why shouldn't he just grow past his low self-esteem so that he feels worthy of this kind of woman without trying to tear her down?

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    1) 'Cause it is easier.
    2) Life is about winning at any cost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duck_of_Death View Post
    1) 'Cause it is easier.
    2) Life is about winning at any cost.
    No it's not easier in the long-term. In the short time, it might actually seem to work (and probably with a woman whose self-esteem is already about as low as his own, you can't tear down a person whose self-worth isn't contingent upon externals but is firmly rooted in the self, which is why two narcissists are likely to find one another, or a histrionic and a narcissist, or a Borderline and a co-dependent, and the really healthy people go date each other)....but it will just propel you into a never-ending loop of relationship SHIT, until you learn the problem is actually yourself, and by fixing yourself, you automatically attract and/or keep better partners without even trying to control them.

    SO...essentially you're telling him to stay a coward, because only a cowardly man abuses a woman so he can get laid. How pathetic.

    It's difficult for me to believe that you aren't trolling, but I've seen your posts on other forums, and know what your heinous issues with women appear to be.

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    OP, I'm sure there's some perfectly nice fat girls out there you could make very happy. Take a chance!
    And so long as you haven’t experienced this: to die and so to grow,
    you are only a troubled guest on the dark earth

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    OP, I'm sure there's some perfectly nice fat girls out there you could make very happy. Take a chance!
    To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.
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    I think we should focus less on sex and survival and more on faith and friendship.

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    Hi, I cleaned up some bullshit.

    Carry on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaptorWizard View Post
    I think we should focus less on sex and survival and more on faith and friendship.
    Sometimes dude I really find you post stuff that resonates with me so much.

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    Get out and do something. Find something to aspire toward that will give you a sense of accomplishment. Everything else will fall into place.

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