I've been in a 2 year relationship with an ENFJ. Things have been rocky but I've been very persistent in doing what I can to keep my ENFJ happy.
He's been very stressed with work. Way more stressed than usual. He only comes home to complain about work most of the time these days. He gets angry and says it's not me. Then has tantrums and apologizes for me having to see him a certain way.
I had some problems with anxiety which created our initial problems in our relationship with intimacy, but that has since been resolved.
Now he is telling me that I deserve better than him, after a fight last night...and now he won't talk to me. It's valentine's day and although this holiday is bullshit it's hard to see everyone so happy and getting flowers and love from their S.O. while mine is clearly punishing me.
I don't know what to do. This is like the 4th time he's acted like he's going to end things. It never ends up being that way...but I just don't know what I can do. I'm having such a hard time with this. I know this doesn't show all of the context...but I'm desperate.