yeah I guess you're right. People can do ridiculous things when they feel hurt. It's your choice... either you want her back or you don't and in the end, your actions will reflect that. Relationships are a two way street and one always has the option of dealing with the dynamics, changing the dynamics or leaving.

A. We aren't getting the full picture.
B. Your friend is stressed, overreacting, immature and/or crazy.
C. Both.