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    Quote Originally Posted by aufs klo View Post
    that was good, i liked that! nicely articulated!
    thanks!
    but did it make sense or just sound pretty?
    both would be cool.

    beauty and functionality. in any sense of the words. the key to all that is good in life.
    So you were born, and that is a good day.
    And someday you'll die and what a shame.
    But somewhere in the between, theres a life in which we all dream,
    And nothing and no one will ever take that away.

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    hmmm no. I have only had one experience and I hated it. I've never even smoked a cigarette. I have been told the circumstances surrounding it were possibly the reason why (?) *shrug* I had just broken up with someone, was devastated, met some people, was offered a joint, took two puffs and was then absolutely sick to my stomach for the next 24 hours.

    Don't like being drunk either and that also very rarely happens. I think I don't like feeling like I'm doing any damage to my body.

    Strangely I am regularly offered every drug under the sun whenever I'm out, even the last time I went sofa shopping the sales dude told me he wanted to smoke with me and bugged me about it a little via phone. I find that odd.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sanveane View Post
    I have only had one experience and I hated it. I've never even smoked a cigarette. I have been told the circumstances surrounding it were possibly the reason why (?) *shrug* I had just broken up with someone, was devastated, met some people, was offered a joint, took two puffs and was then absolutely sick to my stomach for the next 24 hours.

    Quote Originally Posted by jakuwhat View Post
    i think responsibility is a key thing to mention here.

    i also think poor judgment calls are a result of what's going on in one's mind at the time.

    too many people don't have a good enough grasp on themselves and their place in this world to begin with. when their thoughts and feelings are exemplified as when abusing drugs or alcohol bad/poor/wrong thoughts and actions can occur that wouldn't occur in a 'normal' state of mind.
    mmhmm.

    i think the bad experience can be blamed on a lack of knowledge or foresight moreso than the weed itself, or even the fact that you were breakup-devastated, so i hope you haven't ended up hating the pots as a result of your experience.
    i know you didn't say you did, but i hope that's not how you feel now or the reason you seem impartial/confused about the matter.

    i think it was an irresponsible action choosing to smoke (on a very minor scale mind you). you didn't put yourself or anyone else's life in danger, but you did wind up feeling physically ill for a full 24 hours afterward.
    though, in a stressful situation like a breakup it's probably probably tougher to think as clearly as you usually do, but thats where people gotta stay focused!
    perhaps you wouldn't have decided to ingest a substance like thc if you really knew what state of mind you were in?
    you probably could have told yourself the outcome has a good chance of not being so good.

    but i suppose if you learned from the mistake then that's what matters.
    try not to be devastated after a breakup? don't have feelings! (but really though, don't let the feelings be you. idk. i'm a guy. gimme a break)
    but definitely don't treat mind-altering substances lightly.

    and most of all, try new things in a calm, pure state of mind. not dazed and confuzed.
    it's like having too many variables in a scientific experiment (it essentially is) not knowing which one caused the observed outcome.

    and if you can't form a thorough hypothesis, try the experiment again!
    So you were born, and that is a good day.
    And someday you'll die and what a shame.
    But somewhere in the between, theres a life in which we all dream,
    And nothing and no one will ever take that away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jakuwhat View Post
    mmhmm.

    i think the bad experience can be blamed on a lack of knowledge or foresight moreso than the weed itself, or even the fact that you were breakup-devastated, so i hope you haven't ended up hating the pots as a result of your experience.
    i know you didn't say you did, but i hope that's not how you feel now or why seem so impartial/confused on the matter.

    i think it was an irresponsible action choosing to smoke (on a very minor scale mind you). you didn't put yourself or anyone else's life in danger, but you did wind up feeling physically ill for a full 24 hours afterward.
    though, in a stressful situation like a breakup it's probably probably tougher to think as clearly as you usually do, but thats where people gotta stay focused!
    perhaps you wouldn't have decided to ingest a substance like thc if you really knew what state of mind you were in?
    you probably could have told yourself the outcome has a good chance of not being so good, look at me right now!

    but i suppose if you learned from the mistake then that's what matters.
    try not to be devastated after a breakup? don't have feelings! (but really though, don't let the feelings be you. idk. i'm a guy. gimme a break)
    but definitely don't treat mind-altering substances lightly.

    and most of all, try new things in a calm, pure state of mind. not dazed and confuzed.
    it's like having to many variables in a scientific experiment (it essentially is) not knowing which one caused the observed outcome.

    and if you can't form a thorough hypothesis, try the experiment again!

    Oh wow, um, yeah, I am trying to be calm, pretty condescending post in the middle there. Anyways... I was just sharing. I didn't really have much interest in trying anything but did randomly that night and yes I understand that my state of mind influenced my reaction. Lesson learned.

    Although, I know I am very sensitive in terms of my make-up and that underscored it for me, so mind-altering substances are not for me. I pretty much have zero interest in pot or anything else. *shrug* No big deal. If I want to calm down I go for a run or do something physical and it works fine.

    I don't care if others around me are into it though, loads of my friends and colleagues are. To be very honest, I wouldn't date someone who was really into getting out of it all the time with drugs or alcohol as I don't.

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    i do sincerely apologize for the condescending under or overtones. i know you were just sharing, but your words are there so i simply seized the wonderful opportunity to aid myself in putting some thoughts and ideas down in writing. it's like a public diary.
    well the forums sort of are.
    no, they really are.

    i might add that i think there are too many pot smokers who would benefit a great deal should they to choose your calm-down methods in place of a joint. i will bet (and i suppose i don't have to if you agree) that your life is just fine sans marijuana.
    it's used, and abused. and it's sad
    edit: ^what i was thinking about was how many avid smokers i know who forget what running is. like smoking weed and being active can't be a part of the same way of living. balaaaanceuhhhh

    i do not want to advocate the use of pot, but i do want to promote gaining an understanding of it and it's affects (positive and negative) on people. (because it's so common in our society)

    okay and one more time just because i feel bad
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    And nothing and no one will ever take that away.

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    ^Awww it's cool.... thanks though - I kind of hate sharing publicly, (I'm sure you understand being INFJ too ) but thought I would and brace myself for the outcome, lol. Thanks for the hugs, to you too. I did take on board what you said though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sanveane View Post
    hmmm no. I have only had one experience and I hated it. I've never even smoked a cigarette. I have been told the circumstances surrounding it were possibly the reason why (?) *shrug* I had just broken up with someone, was devastated, met some people, was offered a joint, took two puffs and was then absolutely sick to my stomach for the next 24 hours.

    Don't like being drunk either and that also very rarely happens. I think I don't like feeling like I'm doing any damage to my body.
    I think it's a good thing you didn't enjoy it, there are drugs I didn't enjoy one bit and I thank my lucky stars for it otherwise I would have been one of thosew shaky junkies looking for my next fix.

    Plus (even though I do it) cannabis is bad for you since it's a) mixed with fags, and b) laced with stuff to make it more potent.

    So thank your lucky stars that the boat passed you by because life is good without it, and your healthier without it .


    Strangely I am regularly offered every drug under the sun whenever I'm out, even the last time I went sofa shopping the sales dude told me he wanted to smoke with me and bugged me about it a little via phone. I find that odd.
    Haha that must be weird for you.
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    ^Aww thanks. Tbh I really think something in my make-up doesn't let me ingest certain things, I can't explain it very well. I don't tolerate alcohol well either. Even though I am very curious and interested in different planes of existence. It kind of sucks, though perhaps it's for the best. I don't usually do things by halves

    Yeah, I really laugh at how often I am offered things.... It usually happens after some deep kind of conversation which I admit to having all over the place - I guess that is kind of what I am a 'shaky junkie' for, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sanveane View Post
    some deep kind of conversation which I admit to having all over the place
    i think it's how all us infj's get our fix, no?
    So you were born, and that is a good day.
    And someday you'll die and what a shame.
    But somewhere in the between, theres a life in which we all dream,
    And nothing and no one will ever take that away.

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    ^LOL, right you are Connection ftw!

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