I haven't had many problems with INFJs this past year save for the usual:
- Assuming most INFJs are mistyped INFPs (what about ISFJs, ENFPs, ENFJs and ISFPs?) just because Vicki Jo said so. Admittedly however I (along with some others I have encountered online) have similar gripes with my own type at times: believing them mistypes.
- Some have a communication style (both interpersonal and introspective) which somehow makes me feel very uncomfortable. I assume it was Fe but I have not encountered this phenomenon with ENFJs or ESFJs so I can only assume Ni is affecting the mix somehow. It has overtones which suggest a lack of humility - blatant kiss-own-ass remarks and outlook. It is unfortunate that I have not grown past this reaction.
-This whole "NT hybrid"/"Closest point to an NT you can get" routine. The four NT types lack specific shared characteristics outside of "preference for thinking and intuition". Function wise they are no closer to "NTs" than ENFPs.
-How so many INFJs type as enneagram 5 (and 4w5). I am sure there are numerous INFJs who are these types but the quantity of them is hard to believe. If you were to use "cognitive function stacks influence personal motivations" as a premise where in NiFeTiSe would you find the motivations for four and five?