and if fia or anyone else was to follow her intentions and points out examples where they - as she stated she has - have experienced and acted out of experiencing remorse, in this thread or anywhere, it would have being a huge boulder off my shoulders, but instead she pointed out an example where she acted out against a notion of remorse.
all i want is one example.
people have asked for that in return, and i don't think its reasonable to expect that i should betray the privacy of friends and family and people i've known from various types, but my own privacy is my own to betray. and you know what it took me to find an ENTP's expression of remorse? writing "sorry" in my gmail's search box.
was posting it easy? ofcourse not, but if i can get one, just one example of an INFJ showing remorse, it would be wroth while.
for me? it might not redeem my wife, but it would be a huge step towards trying to forgive her internally, and at the very least, i would be able to trust some people (whose company i enjoy very much) further then i can throw them. that alone would be worth the former gut-spilling.