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    Oh I can also become really funny (without meaning to...)

    My last effort while talking to this guy I liked as he was telling me that the secret to his business success is that he hires experts to do the job...

    Him: So then people call up and always ask for something 'Young and Funky' and I get this for them...
    Me: Oh so you mean you go and get someone young and funky to help you out...

    He didn't call back...

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    i usually say "oh, but older guys with curly hair are hot" and then smile and walk off. leaving my prey scratching his head. because they are always Is. Poor boys, they have no chance.
    "Let's think the unthinkable, let's do the undoable, let's prepare to grapple with the ineffable itself, and see if we may not eff it after all."

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    Quote Originally Posted by RandomNF View Post
    When they like someone. When they are in love. And so on.

    (I happen to have an ENFP friend who has been behaving very oddly in my vicinity.
    Blushing, shyness, occasional muteness, embarrassment, constant staring at me, nervous laughters... Not the kind of behaviour this person usually exhibits.

    But I'm not sure.

    I actually doubt it... I've heard that ENFPs can behave like they were interested without actually being interested at all.

    In fact, I almost never think that anyone would be interested in me (which has resulted in some shocking surprise "I luv u" statements directed to me), but this person is behaving just too uncommonly.

    Help me )

    Your subject line says "How do ENFPs BEHAVE..."

    Well, we don't, generally.
    "People demand freedom of speech as a compensation for the freedom of thought which they seldom use." ~Soren Kierkegaard

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    Awkward, impatient, frigid, awkward, hyper, abrupt, cold, quiet, awkward, inappropriate, autistic, and really really really really really really really really awkward.

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    A few things can happen...the worst is when I get really quiet and introverted and lose all my confidence, charm, and sense of humor. It wrecks the whole thing because it's like suddenly losing the things people liked you for in the first place. I also tend to dice my words...that one is embarassing. And I really hate the super-awkward one, where I just smile and look at the person or my feet. That's only at the absolute worst though. But sometimes I'm saved because they think this is cute or whatever...it depends on the girl.
    But all of this stuff only happens if I really really like someone...if it's like hey, that random girl at the party is cute or whatever, there's no problem going up to talk to them, etc.

    BTW, too lazy to go back to that comment, but comparing it to the high kid trying not to look high is awesome.

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    mmm... usually if i like someone, i like TOTALLY go after them. i get pretty excited... lol

    and the thing is, i totally get scared of making a move on them. lol unless i feel unusually bold... lol

    some people say its not good to give a girl too much attention if you like her. i try to do that... but its so hard sometimes! LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Modern Nomad View Post
    mmm... usually if i like someone, i like TOTALLY go after them. i get pretty excited... lol

    and the thing is, i totally get scared of making a move on them. lol unless i feel unusually bold... lol

    some people say its not good to give a girl too much attention if you like her. i try to do that... but its so hard sometimes! LOL
    i was about to agree with you: im actaully more crazy then normal around a particular girl i like..... Ne goes into even more overdrive!

    ....but then i remembered the MONTHS of warming up its taken for me to not be the quiet mute who cant stammer a word out around girl he is attracted to

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    If there is someone I really really like, I will drift to the outside of the circle, become very quiet and withdrawn and just muse it over and steal glances at their beauty. It's very awkward for me and I think part of me hopes they realize I am not myself and come talk to me.

    Other times if I just want to make sexy time then i have no issues whatsoever talking it up and playing the game.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    i was about to agree with you: im actaully more crazy then normal around a particular girl i like..... Ne goes into even more overdrive!

    ....but then i remembered the MONTHS of warming up its taken for me to not be the quiet mute who cant stammer a word out around girl he is attracted to
    LOL!

    Yeah, I had those months too... lol

    I think when I was like that, they eventually noticed all the times i would quickly look away when they caught me looking at them. lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Modern Nomad View Post
    LOL!

    Yeah, I had those months too... lol

    I think when I was like that, they eventually noticed all the times i would quickly look away when they caught me looking at them. lol!
    when it gets really bad, is when SHE is ALSO a "im shy around person i like" ...so then its just like quitesville and each one thinks "he/she must be shy"....then each one of us pops on facebook/sees the other at a party and is like:
    "WTF??!!! he/she actaully talks/wont shut up!"

    the simultaneous quiet warm up can be pretty hilarious actaully now that i look back in retrospect over the past year....

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