For example, most people I know don't give a flying fug about MBTI and since I know this I limit my conversation about it or I talk about it with people I know are more amenable to topics like this. I don't get mad at them for not being interested because everybody has there own interests just as you have yours. Honestly if somebody came at me talking about MMORPGs, I doubt I'd have much interest. Are you interests particularly esoteric? If so, you may want to find a group of people with whom you can talk about these things with since most people probably won't know about it.
Have you tried discovering what interests the SJs in your life have? You may find something out about them you never knew before and that could lead to mutual understanding. You said in your OP that you have problems creating a meaningful relationships with SJs. May I ask how old you are because you sound kind of young. Are you referring to SJs that are your peers or older SJs? What do you consider a meaningful relationship?
I saw this a while ago satirizing the differences male and female sex drives and I think it's applicable here as well.