This is my first post, but I've been actively reading about MBTI in books and several websites (including this one) for the past (long) period. I'm am completely fascinated by it and would love to use bits and pieces of it in trying to understand the motives of myself, my family members, friends and colleagues, so I can manage those relationships more effectively & to help them (myself included) grow as a person.
I took a few tests which all indicated me as an INFJ. And I'm very happy with most of the descriptions I read about INFJ: I can identify with them very well. However, I recently discovered there's more to T and F: Fi/Fe and Ti/Te. That discovery has confused me to the point of having spent the past few days on the internet trying to grasp the difference between Fe/Ti and Te/Fi. As an INFJ I should match with Fe/Ti but I can much more identify with Te/Fi. However, looking at my personality as a whole, I feel I am much more like INFJ than INTJ in all kinds of situations.
My brain is tired & I've come to accept that I can't find an answer that truly speaks to me by myself. Please help me out. I'm aware of all the forum threads out there that already address this subject. That's what I've been reading for the past few days They simply don't seem to help...
I would love to give you a trazillion examples of my actions and underlying motives to help you decide whether I'm Fe/Ti or Te/Fi, but I believe it might disturb your objectivy if I did so in this first post. Instead I kinda hope some of you will ask some kind of brilliant superquestion and that my answers will provide proof for either INFJ or INTJ. Hope that's okay.