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[INFJ] INFJ's and excess sociability
- Thread starter Swivelinglight
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- INTP
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- sp/so
It probably depends on the INFJ. I am always worrying about the feeling of other people but usually, I need my alone time and am extremely introverted, I'd hardly call myself a social butterfly the majority of the time. I often commit social faux pas but I've gotten better over the years. I've seen other INFJs who have an extreme need for interaction,I need it to an extent but it has it's limits.
A lot of the time I won't go out of my way for it and even avoid it. I want people to like me but it's a small percentage of the time spending time with people who I like and I need 90% of the time to myself. If I get the sense people don't like me, I try to figure out why they don't and am polite to them as possible, or just try not to step on their toes. Fe has a people need but ni is an introverted percieving function so these two things can work together but ni spends time in one's head while fe may or may not have a people need.
A lot of the time I won't go out of my way for it and even avoid it. I want people to like me but it's a small percentage of the time spending time with people who I like and I need 90% of the time to myself. If I get the sense people don't like me, I try to figure out why they don't and am polite to them as possible, or just try not to step on their toes. Fe has a people need but ni is an introverted percieving function so these two things can work together but ni spends time in one's head while fe may or may not have a people need.
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