Okay, I confess that I am still new to the the whole enneagram, personality thing. I got turned on to it while helping my sister on a research paper for psychology. So, I've not yet learned to identify other types, but I know the characteristics of the types I don't like. They're loud, boisterious, obnoxious. They're always lording their physical powers over others and showing out. They're insensitive and full of themselves. Ever since I was a kid, I've disliked it when the guys who played sports were louder, got more breaks from teachers, were rude, etc. I want to like people for who they are, but there are certain take-charge types that I have issues with. I hate to admit that, but it is so true. So, I've just got to ask, does anyone else ever have this personal issue?
I was doing a martial arts demonstration [with some friends from our martial arts school] and handing out flyers for free self-defense class at college this evening when all these jocks come around acting like they knew everything about everything. I hate that I am like this but I don't like them. Maybe I'm jealous that I'm not six feet tall and made of muscle or twice as strong as I am, but I do all right for a petite person with a big lot of heart. It's like we come from different planets. I confess. I fantazised about hurting them as they walked away. Eek! That's not good.