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    I drink your milkshake. Thessaly's Avatar
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    Well if she's liked some guy for a year and has done nothing to initiate then it's possible she likes you too and is acting similarly. People have their patterns. Her looking at you and becoming jealous at your attention towards others indicates to me that she likes you, but doesn't know how to deal with it. If I were you I'd start dating other people and move on. She'll realize you aren't around forever then and maybe actually make a move. And if she's too afraid of rejection she'll become much more clear in her feelings towards you by becoming cold/withdrawn and then maybe you can just ask her what's up and see how it goes. This way you can determine if she likes you and if she doesn't you'll be dating someone new to have fun with. Win win.
    With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

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    It sounds like she is afraid of putting herself out there and perhaps making a fool of herself. It's difficult sometimes to click with an INFP. Sometimes it's really easy, sometimes it's more uncomfortable and awkward. Maybe she is going through a phrase of her life where she does not feel that confident or self-assured so she doesn't know if she should take a risk with you. I think getting to know her better will help so that she can feel comfortable with you and at least talk to you like a friend. Having conversations with each other is a requirement of any relationship. I think that one of you has to break the ice and since you're entp, it will be easier for you. Be really laid-back and easy-going with her and your energy will calm her. Don't be upset that she rejected you once otherwise she will feel uncomfortable and avoid you further. Just be very friendly, be attentive to her needs when you can, and be there for her but don't be upset or make things awkward. And see how that goes?

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    Tell her again. Tell her again.

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    you fucked up. if someone ignores me screw them, and i don't mean literally either.
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    Guys, it's pretty clear that the ENTP who created this thread forgot about it 5 minutes after creating it...

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