I have a close friend of mine who is going through some rough times and I really wanna support her. I know she wants me to be nearby, but she doesn't like me coaching her. I tend to do that by telling her what I would do in her situation and she says that most of these things are not useful to her. This whole depression of hers is a combination of stress and unsuccessful relationships. I feel it's not enough to just sit and listen to what she has to say. If I were to be myself I would tell her that her way of running her life is just pathetic and only gets her into trouble, but I know it will only get her really upset instead. So how can I help her?