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  • ESTJ

    0 0%
  • ISTJ

    0 0%
  • ESTP

    0 0%
  • ISTP

    3 23.08%
  • ENTJ

    1 7.69%
  • INTJ

    2 15.38%
  • ENTP

    2 15.38%
  • INTP

    0 0%
  • ENFJ

    0 0%
  • INFJ

    0 0%
  • ENFP

    5 38.46%
  • INFP

    0 0%
  • ESFJ

    0 0%
  • ISFJ

    0 0%
  • ESFP

    0 0%
  • ISFP

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    Default ENFJs: Which type do you think is your ideal romantic match?

    This is for you as an individual, not what you think ENFJs best type is in general.

    The same question for these other types:

    INFJs
    ENFPs
    INFPs

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    I’d have to go with ExFP. Is that sufficient or would you prefer I narrowed it down further to eliminate the X?

    Least ideal: IxFJ

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    Having had past chemistry/relations with INTPs be pretty strong, I regret to say that I wouldn't go with them anymore even if the chemistry was there again.
    In the end I need someone closer to myself, so eNTj. Someone borderline on the E/I axis, and the J/P axis so they are more easygoing than me but not clear on the other side so that we are incompatible. I also prefer sx/sp or an sx/so for variants. I am a enneagram 1 so just not another number near me (not a 1 or 2).
    Extroverted (E) 67.74% Introverted (I) 32.26%
    Intuitive (N) 51.72% Sensing (S) 48.28%
    Feeling (F) 51.61% Thinking (T) 48.39%
    Judging (J) 69.44% Perceiving (P) 30.56%

    Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
    so/sx/sp

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    I could see IXXP, EXTP, ENTJ. What I would be hesitant of is EXFX, XSXJ except possibly ISTJ.

    Is that way too broad?

    My absolute ideal would be ISFP, ENTP.
    Least ideal would be EXFJ, ISFJ.

    Ok. I pick: ENTP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juice View Post
    I’d have to go with ExFP. Is that sufficient or would you prefer I narrowed it down further to eliminate the X?

    Least ideal: IxFJ
    Hmmm...

    If you could narrow it down, that would be great.

    But if you can't, it's no big deal.

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    Then I’ll have to go with: EnFp

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juice View Post
    Then I’ll have to go with: EnFp
    *puts on Rock The Vote shirt*

    So you gunna exercise ur right, or let the old folks ruin the world?

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    Come onnnnn ENTP! *rolls dice*

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    I have to say, I find it interesting, but perhaps not surprising, that all three ENFJ votes have gone to other extroverts.

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    By Socionics intertype relations chart the best match for ENFJ is the ISTP. These two types have exactly same cognitive functions but in reverse formation, making them form what's called a Duality relationship (described under LSI-EIE, ISTP becomes ISTj in socionics since that is their Ti leading Se creative type). Unfortunately these two types, ENFJ and ISTP, rarely meet, so their unions are very few.

    Other favorable matches include: INFJ (mirror relationship), ESTP (activity relationship), ISFP (mirage relationship), ENTP and ESFP (benefit relationship), INFP (extinguishment relationship), INTP (semi-duality relationship)

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