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  • ESTJ

    3 3.85%
  • ISTJ

    0 0%
  • ESTP

    5 6.41%
  • ISTP

    3 3.85%
  • ENTJ

    4 5.13%
  • INTJ

    5 6.41%
  • ENTP

    4 5.13%
  • INTP

    12 15.38%
  • ENFJ

    16 20.51%
  • INFJ

    7 8.97%
  • ENFP

    6 7.69%
  • INFP

    8 10.26%
  • ESFJ

    0 0%
  • ISFJ

    2 2.56%
  • ESFP

    3 3.85%
  • ISFP

    0 0%
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    Quote Originally Posted by think2much View Post
    well I cheated and voted so it's actully one vote


    The INTJs may show up & get you at your own game though. The last thread I recall that took a poll of INFPs' ideal match was "won" by INTJs. Some of us scratched our heads out loud as to how that happened, and then a strange rumbling could be heard as all across the world INTJs laughed maniacally inside their towers & lightening flashed across the sky.

    Intuitives don't underestimate the power of suggestion, apparently.
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    Quote Originally Posted by think2much View Post
    well I cheated and voted so it's actully one vote
    Sneaky!
    Well, still one more than the other.

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    Interesting my infp bf seems to be terribly annoyed by enfjs.
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    Limiting this to just one isn't fair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by think2much View Post
    ...but they don't have humors like INTPs.
    You're right.

    Ours are better.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    Interesting my infp bf seems to be terribly annoyed by enfjs.
    Thanks for opening this topic up, cuz I've been meaning to ask about it since the beginning.

    I know EFJs are one of the best-fit theories for IFPs, and I can understand it to an extent, but it also strikes me as odd.

    Considering all the Fi-Fe battles that have gone on here, I mean, how do you Fi doms reconcile being with/loving an Fe dom?

    Wouldn't they be a soulless organizer-of-the-collective trying to make you sacrifice your individuality for their herd mentality?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasofy View Post
    Same.

    @Zarathustra...I've seen you discuss the whole 'opposites attract' thing. Most recently in Giggly's 'why are non-affectionate people attracted to affectionate people' (or whatever that thread is lol) thread. That we tend to be attracted to certain qualities we lack in an effort to seek balance. You don't think it applies here as well? Have you ever found yourself *mesmerized* lol by the charms of an ENTP?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    @Zarathustra...I've seen you discuss the whole 'opposites attract' thing. Most recently in Giggly's 'why are non-affectionate people attracted to affectionate people' (or whatever that thread is lol) thread. That we tend to be attracted to certain qualities we lack in an effort to seek balance. You don't think it applies here as well? Have you ever found yourself *mesmerized* lol by the charms of an ENTP?
    I'm not sure what Z will say, but I for one tend to be more annoyed by ENTPs than mesmerized or charmed. The few I know can be almost spastic, chaotic, capricious. ENFPs might flit from thing to thing like a sprightly fairy; ENTPs zoom among them like a reckless bush pilot. Another way to put it, they are like the most nitpicky, argumentative INTP on an overdose of caffeine. It just makes me tired.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    I'm not sure what Z will say, but I for one tend to be more annoyed by ENTPs than mesmerized or charmed. The few I know can be almost spastic, chaotic, capricious. ENFPs might flit from thing to thing like a sprightly fairy; ENTPs zoom among them like a reckless bush pilot. Another way to put it, they are like the most nitpicky, argumentative INTP on an overdose of caffeine. It just makes me tired.
    lol Coriolis...I understand.

    This has nothing to do with nothing...but I guess I will just say here (before it gets dumped into off-topic-posts)...even after all this time I still don't totally understand the difference between 'extroversion' and 'social'. Like I am off-the-charts Ne...I'm even an e7...but I'm not very social (so last maybe?)...so everything you describe above...I do those things as well...but I don't necessarily need to engage the outside world if that makes sense. I do all of the above in my head lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathustra View Post
    Thanks for opening this topic up, cuz I've been meaning to ask about it since the beginning.

    I know EFJs are one of the best-fit theories for IFPs, and I can understand it to an extent, but it also strikes me as odd.

    Considering all the Fi-Fe battles that have gone on here, I mean, how do you Fi doms reconcile being with/loving an Fe dom?

    Wouldn't they be a soulless organizer-of-the-collective trying to make you sacrifice your individuality for their herd mentality?
    I frequently find myself drawn towards Fe types. It rarely turns into a war for me, and it offers a perspective on things that I tend to miss, which I appreciate. (I find that my Fi-ness gets in the way of my E9ness.) I also enjoy how much more expressive Fe types are, which helps counter my natural outward calm.

    Most of the types I seem most drawn to are Fe types, although there are exceptions such as NTJs and ENFPs.

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