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  • ESTJ

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  • ISTJ

    2 8.00%
  • ESTP

    0 0%
  • ISTP

    3 12.00%
  • ENTJ

    1 4.00%
  • INTJ

    5 20.00%
  • ENTP

    2 8.00%
  • INTP

    1 4.00%
  • ENFJ

    1 4.00%
  • INFJ

    4 16.00%
  • ENFP

    1 4.00%
  • INFP

    2 8.00%
  • ESFJ

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  • ISFJ

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  • ESFP

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    Default ENFPS: Which type do you think is your ideal romantic match?

    This is for you as an individual, not what you think ENFPs best type is in general.

    The same question for these other types:

    ENFJs
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    Last edited by Zarathustra; 06-19-2012 at 02:21 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathustra View Post
    I hope so

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    Not a single ENFP?

    Really?

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    Sorry I feel like I've just answered this somewhere

    My feeling is that I would have to date like at least 3 of each type before I had enough data to go on and even then I would doubt it.

    Type only makes something easier or more challenging it doesn't make you like a person IMO.

    However... I have dated more Nfps then any other type but my longest relationship was with an istj.

    I have not had much experience though really... I was with the istj since I was 17 and have dated two people since. One either an enfp or an entp and the current is an infp

    Both of them are ridiculously easy to get along with an I enjoy feeling understood and valued for my views an jut who I am

    The istj and I connected on just a couple levels and never really truly valued what made the other person tick

    And that likely has a lot to do with our mbti but given my very small data sample I can't be sure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathustra View Post
    @Starry (hey, i called you! :P)
    Thank god you included me this time or I would have said or done something weird.

    Unfortunately...I don't know how to answer this. It has been hard to be limited to just one choice. <--- the reason I wrote 'has been hard' though is because I have put thought into it. I honestly just don't know how to answer.

    EDIT: ^^^that was written really poorly lol.

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    I am beginning to think this will have a lot to do with enneatype.

    A 7w8 ENFP will probably not hit it off so hot with an 6w5 ISTJ, but that same 7w8 ENFP could probably hit it off pretty well with a 4w5 INTJ. Whereas a 2w3 ENFP might get along beautifully with that 6w5 ISTJ.

    I have found ExFJs most sparkly thus far.

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    For just myself, I think the following types might be okay: intps/istps/intjs/istjs/infps/infjs/an old enfp

    highly unlikely estp or entp or esfp. It would have to be the right enfj.

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    Oh If it pleases you I can do that ^^

    Just based on a theory...maybe... Inxp, enxp, inxj, enxj and possibly esfj

    But of course I realize I might not work well with the majority of people of those types or I might work well with someone of another type haha

    There have another noncommittal answer
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    By Socionics intertype relations chart the best match for ENFP is the ISTJ. These two types have exactly same cognitive functions but in reverse formation, making them form what's called a Duality relationship (described under SLI-IEE, ISTJ becomes ISTp in socionics since that is their Si leading Te creative type). Unfortunately these two types may rarely meet, so their unions are very few. NFs are just more likely to get together with other NFs and ignore STs due to sensor type prejudices.

    Other favorable matches for ENFP include: INFP (mirror relationship), ESTJ (activity relationship), INTJ (mirage relationship), ENTJ and ESFJ (benefit relationship), INFJ (extinguishment relationship), ISFJ (semi-duality relationship)

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    I'd probably do best with another ExFP type, though I could see myself with an unusually sexual INTJ. I've been attracted to several NFJs actually, but longterm? hell no lol
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